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Sex-based harassment curtails behaviour through sexual stereotyping. Sex-based harassment includes name-calling, sexual innuendo, sexist comments, sexist jokes, displaying offensive materials and behaviour such as flashing and 'dakking'.

Terms such as 'slut', 'whore', 'bitch' and 'butch' are used to regulate girls' behaviour – to suggest that they are not 'doing' their femininity appropriately. Equally, terms such as 'poof', 'wuss' and 'girlie' can be used to deny the legitimacy of boys' behaviours when they operate in different ways from the acceptable or dominant forms of masculinity.

Sex-based harassment often comes from boys – and some girls and adults – who are stronger, older or more powerful, and whose abuse of power may be condoned by the dominant cultures. Students who suffer this behaviour sometimes find that the harassment is perceived as their individual, personal problem.

This violence needs to be named for what it is – not the problems of individual students, but part of learned social behaviour that sets up masculinity in opposition to femininity, that devalues femininity, that restricts individual choice and that operates to the detriment of all students.

It is also important to understand that the frustrations and resentments that many boys feel in school, and that are manifested in disruptive behaviour, are also experienced by many girls, but that girls have learned to be more compliant.

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Communities speak

"I usually get a hard time about talking with and playing with girls in class and at lunchtime. Because I spend time with girls, I get called faggot and a tryhard towards girls. When I get called names it makes me feel like I have been excluded from the boy race."

...Year 7 student

"I'm a girl. I hate make-up and dresses. I am more like a boy my friends say, because I like footy, soccer and baggy clothes. I mostly get teased due to me playing with the boys. I get called a boy, and a suckup. It makes it worse when the
boys stick up for me. People should not be bullied because of stereotypical images."

...Year 7 student

"I came here from another school this year ... kids here understand different people better. Teachers take it seriously if you tell them something has happened and it might have been a joke in some other culture but it isn't in mine."

...Year 12 boy

"A lot of people don't realise that boys and girls can be friends, and don't have to be going out. They have very stereotyped ideas about relationships between males and females. Sometimes even kids' parents tease them about boyfriends and girlfriends if they see their young children playing or talking with the other sex. The more boys and girls who show that you can be friends with someone because you get on with them and it doesn't matter about sex, race or anything else, the better."

...Secondary student

"In order to challenge violence within schools, boys' violences need to be seen as a masculinity issue. Violence by boys should not simply be regarded as the playing out of individual pathological behaviours. Nor should such violence be seen as the product of boys' 'nature'. Instead, attempts to develop an understanding of boys' violence should entail a focus on the ways in which violence, domination, and oppression are implicated in the construction of certain behaviours as 'normal boy behaviour'. Such a focus necessitates a consideration of homophobia and misogyny."

...(Mills, 2001)

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Challenges

School communities need to:

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Resources

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