Getting over homophobia…

Understand what homophobia is.

Homophobia is intolerance and prejudice against groups of people because they are lesbian, gay or because they are perceived to be lesbian or gay.

Allow people the freedom to be themselves.

There are many ways of being a woman or being a man. Everyone has a right to their own sexuality provided they do not harm others or infringe their rights.

When people are afraid of being the target of homophobic abuse, they can feel forced to change the way they behave. Boys whose mates start calling them gay might start acting tougher and more aggressive because such behaviour is seen to be masculine.

Identify homophobic behaviour.

Homophobia is a violent behaviour that impacts negatively on all people. Many same-sex-attracted young people experience physical and verbal abuse at school.

Terms like 'poofter' and 'faggot' are homophobic name calling.

Don't be silent.

Many people are afraid of homosexuality because they don't know anything about it. Yet one person in ten is gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.

Most young people go through their whole schooling without hearing anything about gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender identities and relationships.

We must challenge homophobia. Otherwise we give the message that homophobia is OK!

Know your rights.

If you're gay or lesbian, you have the right to feel safe. If you're bullied or called names by other students, that is discrimination. It is also discrimination to treat you unfairly because your friend, or one (or both) of your parents, is gay or lesbian.

Find support.

Find people who you trust, feel comfortable with and who can advise and support you.

Contact groups that are set up to support gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender young people.

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